{"id":743,"date":"2022-06-02T00:22:00","date_gmt":"2022-06-02T00:22:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/edycreative.ro\/blog\/?p=743"},"modified":"2022-06-03T06:22:29","modified_gmt":"2022-06-03T06:22:29","slug":"35-timpul","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/edycreative.ro\/blog\/35-timpul\/","title":{"rendered":"35. Timpul."},"content":{"rendered":"\n

Foarte mult timp m-am ferit s\u0103 v\u0103d ziua de na\u0219tere ca pe un bilan\u021b, ca pe o schimbare major\u0103 sau un prag special. Indiferent c\u0103 este 30, 34 sau 35, \u00een final cred c\u0103 este vorba doar de trecerea unui an, dar ca moment cu siguran\u021b\u0103 este un motiv de bucurie s\u0103 te deconectezi pu\u021bin din toat\u0103 nebunia \u0219i s\u0103 sim\u021bi cum mul\u021bi oameni se g\u00e2ndesc la tine. <\/p>\n\n\n\n\n\n\n\n

\u00cen ultimii ani cred c\u0103 to\u021bi ne-am dat seama c\u00e2t suntem de fragili noi ca oameni, totul este foarte dinamic \u0219i se poate schimba rapid, incertitudinea poate ap\u0103rea de pe o zi pe alta \u0219i chiar dac\u0103 \u00een job sau \u00een propria afacere reu\u0219e\u0219ti s\u0103 te adaptezi la situa\u021biile critice, s\u0103 mergi mai departe \u00een alt\u0103 direc\u021bie, s\u0103 \u00eenve\u021bi altceva, s\u0103 g\u0103se\u0219ti alte resurse pentru a face bani, \u00een rela\u021bia cu oamenii am \u0219im\u021bit c\u00e2t de mult poate s\u0103 ne lipseasc\u0103 o emo\u021bie, o \u00eembr\u0103\u021bi\u0219are, o tr\u0103ire, un moment. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Sunt momente \u00een via\u021b\u0103 c\u00e2nd din fric\u0103, ru\u0219ine sau din alte motive nu apuci s\u0103 spui unui om ce sim\u021bi pentru el, s\u0103-i spui mul\u021bumesc sau \u00eemi pare r\u0103u. Ast\u0103zi la 35 vreau doar s\u0103 las c\u00e2teva momente din via\u021ba mea \u0219i dac\u0103 nu am spus ce am sim\u021bit atunci sau am spus prea t\u00e2rziu, m\u0103car s\u0103 \u0219tiu c\u0103 undeva a r\u0103mas scris pentru totdeauna. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0218coala general\u0103. <\/strong>Dac\u0103 \u00eencep s\u0103 caut o defini\u021bie actual\u0103, cred ca \u00een primii doi ani de \u0219coal\u0103 general\u0103 am tr\u0103it un bullying din partea unor colegi \u0219i chiar \u0219i a educatoarei. Eram o \u021bint\u0103 de mi\u0219to \u0219i marginalizare, cu un profesor slab preg\u0103tit care nu asculta, nu era subiectiv \u0219i c\u0103uta doar s\u0103 le spun\u0103 p\u0103rin\u021bilor mei ca eu sunt problema. Ai mei au decis s\u0103 m\u0103 transfere la alt\u0103 \u0219coal\u0103, mult mai departe de cas\u0103, o schimbare total\u0103 de mediu, dar care cu siguran\u021b\u0103 a fost cea mai bun\u0103 decizie pentru via\u021ba mea, sunt convins c\u0103 a marcat \u00een bine tot traseul meu pentru a ajunge ce sunt acum. Abia dup\u0103 ce m-am mutat am descoperit joaca, z\u00e2mbetul de \u0219colar, transpira\u021bia de copil\u0103rie. Pentru asta vreau s\u0103 le mul\u021bumesc, s\u0103 le scriu c\u0103 sunt recunosc\u0103tor \u0219i c\u0103 \u00eei iubesc c\u0103 aveau \u00eencredere \u00een mine \u00eenc\u0103 de pe atunci.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Liceu.<\/strong> La final de liceu am cunoscut omul cu care am tr\u0103it cele mai frumoase momente din via\u021ba mea. \u00cen acea perioad\u0103 am \u00eenv\u0103\u021bat \u0219i am cunoscut cu adev\u0103rat de unde porne\u0219te \u0219i cum arat\u0103 bun\u0103tatea, dragostea, bucuria \u0219i triste\u021bea. Poate c\u0103 nu doar de la un om, dar de la o familie \u00eentreag\u0103, nu am mai v\u0103zut la nimeni iubire sincer\u0103 \u00eentr-o familie, \u00eentre fra\u021bi \u0219i p\u0103rin\u021bi a\u0219a cum am descoperit \u00een acea perioad\u0103. O s\u0103 povestesc doar un moment care mi-a r\u0103mas a\u0219a ca o amprent\u0103 \u00een memorie. Era o perioad\u0103 \u00een care eu eram la \u00eenceput cu firma, eram probabil obsedat, ap\u0103sat \u0219i dezam\u0103git c\u0103 lucrurile mergeau prost, \u00eencercam s\u0103 g\u0103sesc o cale s\u0103 fac treaba s\u0103 func\u021bioneze. Prietena mea se angajase recent dup\u0103 o perioad\u0103 grea prin care trecuse \u0219i ea \u0219i \u00eemi aduc aminte c\u0103 m-am \u00eemprumutut de bani din primul ei salariu de la noul job \u0219i de\u0219i atunci pe moment \u00een z\u0103p\u0103ceala mea nu am realizat, cred c\u0103 a fost destul de aiurea c\u0103 am f\u0103cut asta \u0219i nu \u0219tiu dac\u0103 am apucat s\u0103-i spun, dar o s\u0103 las scris aici \u0219i o s\u0103 spun c\u0103 \u00eemi pare r\u0103u, \u00een multe momente grele cu firma nu am fost ra\u021bional \u00eentotdeauna, am f\u0103cut sacrificii, compromisuri \u0219i a\u0219a am pierdut de l\u00e2ng\u0103 mine \u0219i oameni, am avut \u0219i multe idei fixe \u0219i acum \u0219tiu ca unele au fost doar o prostie \u00een capul meu, o lips\u0103 de maturitate \u0219i dac\u0103 atunci eram poate prea orgolios, ast\u0103zi o spun cu sinceritate c\u0103 nu am fost \u00eentotdeauna acolo c\u00e2nd era nevoie de mine.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Facultatea.<\/strong> O perioad\u0103 \u00een care am \u00eenv\u0103\u021bat mult, poate am trecut mai mult neobservat, dar vreau s\u0103 le mul\u021bumesc profesorilor de la master, antreprenori veni\u021bi din pia\u021b\u0103, de multe ori au fost singura mea raz\u0103 de speran\u021b\u0103 de care m\u0103 legam. \u00cemi aduc aminte c\u0103 dup\u0103 cursuri c\u00e2nd m\u0103 duceam \u0219i \u00eei \u00eentrebam ce p\u0103rere au c\u0103 eu vreau s\u0103-mi fac o firm\u0103 \u0219i c\u0103 \u00eemi este greu, \u00eemi spuneau s\u0103 \u00eencerc orice p\u00e2n\u0103 la 30 de ani \u0219i s\u0103 nu las pe nimeni s\u0103 m\u0103 opreasc\u0103. Adev\u0103rul este c\u0103 dup\u0103 2016 firma a \u00eenceput s\u0103 mearg\u0103 mai bine, au avut dreptate \u0219i le mul\u021bumesc pentru speran\u021ba care a \u021binut \u00een via\u021b\u0103 o idee, un g\u00e2nd, un vis al meu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ultimii ani<\/strong>. \u00cen 2017 am cunoscut pe cineva dup\u0103 ce m-am uitat la o poz\u0103 pe Facebook \u00een care era mult\u0103 lume \u0219i am trimis o cerere de prietenie. Un simplu click, c\u00e2teva vorbe \u0219i o \u00eent\u00e2nire. Cam 3 ani ne-am g\u0103sit doar prin c\u00e2teva mesaje, un “ce faci, e\u0219ti bine?” \u0219i cam at\u00e2t, fiecare tr\u0103ia o c\u0103l\u0103torie separat\u0103. \u00cen 2020 cumva toate drumurile ne-au adus \u00eempreun\u0103 \u00eentr-o rela\u021bie pe care am sim\u021bit c\u0103 o tr\u0103iesc emo\u021bional la maxim, am sim\u021bit c\u0103 reg\u0103sesc bucuria \u0219i fericirea.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00cemi pare r\u0103u c\u0103 \u00een timpul scurt \u00een care am fost \u00eempreun\u0103 nu am reu\u0219it s\u0103-i spun ca \u021bin a\u0219a mult la ea \u0219i c\u0103 simt lucrurile at\u00e2t de profund, poate dac\u0103 aveam mai mult timp, acum pot doar s\u0103 las aceste r\u00e2nduri aici. Nu \u0219tiu de ce este totul a\u0219a intens pentru mine, probabil pentru c\u0103 undeva profund \u00een interiorul meu am r\u0103d\u0103cini care vor s\u0103 cl\u0103deasc\u0103 o familie \u0219i cred c\u0103 asta am sim\u021bit c\u0103 se poate realiza. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Acum.<\/strong> Ast\u0103zi, 2 iunie, c\u00e2nd scriu aceste r\u00e2nduri, tocmai ce am ajuns la 35 de ani. C\u0103l\u0103toria a \u00eenceput \u0219i nu este u\u0219or, dar vreau s\u0103-i mai ofer pu\u021bin spa\u021biu s\u0103 v\u0103d ce noi amintiri o s\u0103 aduc\u0103 \u0219i ce dor o s\u0103 tr\u0103iesc.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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